If you need couples counseling, pre-marital counseling, marriage counseling, individual therapy, anger management, or infidelity counseling, Dr. Marty Tashman can help. During his 34 years of being a counselor, Dr. Marty Tashman has learned that there are many things that can be done to help individuals or couples with problems such as: improve communications, deal with emotional pain and anger, find root causes for deep seated issues, and develop tools for better mental and emotional health.
In helping married couples and couples that are not married, the goal is whenever possible, to help them stay together. Approaches include teaching couples how to positively deal with differences, and negotiate and deal with conflicts that come from those differences A major part of Dr. Tashman's work is helping couples get past the trauma of infidelity. He helps rebuild relationships when one partner is falling out of love with the other and helps couples to both understand and be understood by their partner. An important part of the process is helping individuals set limits without being provocative. About 40% of the time individuals in a relationship come individually when their partner is not ready to come for counseling.
In Dr. Marty Tashman's own words:
Imagine how your relationship was in the beginning. I will help you build on those feelings, so that you can find the love that you have lost.
I work with traditional and non traditional couples who are: dating, in long term relationships, living together, engaged, newly weds or couples who have been married for years.
Some people say to me ‚??Are you in favor of saving the marriage?‚?Ě My answer to them is: ‚??Yes, as long as it is not physically and emotionally destructive to either of you.‚?Ě Relationships are one of the most important things in our lives and it‚??s not always easy to get along with so many difficult situations that arise.
During my 34 years of being a marriage counselor, I have learned that there are many things we can do to help couples with problems. I can teach you how to: improve communications, deal with emotional pain, and anger.
Together we can figure out what has gone wrong and what it takes to rebuild your relationship. During counseling, we will rekindle the caring, warmth, and love that the two of you once had.
In counseling, we can find solutions. When couples first start counseling everything seems to be falling apart. When people come to see me they have a lot of anger, hurt, and sadness. Some people are panicky and others are doubtful about whether or not they want to be married.
There are techniques that couples can use to deal with their feelings and problems. People come in saying ‚??I‚??ve tried everything and nothing has worked.‚?Ě During our sessions, they are surprised to find out that there are many things that they weren‚??t aware of and had never thought of.
These are the three steps in counseling.
One ‚?? We get the problems, issues, and resentments out in the open and in a safe and productive place.
Two ‚?? We deal with the disappointments, resentments and anger.
I will also show you how to: rebuild your friendship and deal with different points of view.
Three ‚?? I will teach you how to build a new relationship, a relationship with: trust, understanding, kindness, fun, and love.
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If you need couples counseling, pre-marital counseling, marriage counseling, individual therapy, anger management, or infidelity counseling, Dr. Marty Tashman can help.
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