I have been a member for 5 years now and would not sell my spot for any amount of money. It has been the best summers I have ever had since I was a kid. My first year at gravel ponds I too went the wrong way on the road and Jack came over and scolded me. Did I enjoy it, hack no! But he was not improper in ANY way!! The rules are one of the reasons Gravel Ponds is the place that it is. To portray Jack as "Insane" is way off base and I would suggest that the fault lies with you.